Tips From 4 Pillars On Discussing Debt

Debt can be a very difficult subject for friends and family to discuss. Often people struggling with debt are embarrassed, frustrated, and feel very isolated in a situation that can seem extremely overwhelming and impossible to fix.

Approaching these conversations in a way that is respectful and helpful is the best way to talk to friends and family, according to the experience of our 4 Pillars debt consultants.

Do Not Blame or Judge

Approaching the subject as a support person rather than someone who may be seen as judging or blaming is a critical factor in a successful conversation. Talking about finances in an open and honest way and indicating you are there to help and not to blame can be instrumental in getting people to understand help is available.

Provide Resources

Rather than telling individuals or couples to seek help, providing them with information on the 4 Pillars website is an effective way to allow them to research on their own.

We offer a range of blogs and helpful articles to provide insight into what we can do to help manage debt and rebuild your financial life.

Talk About Options

Sharing the fact that our 4 Pillars debt consultants work with clients in confidentiality to provide options for debt relief can be very helpful. While some people may have limited choices, many people will find there are several possible approaches to resolving their debt, especially if they meet with the debt consultant early in the process.

For more information, book online to schedule an appointment with one of our debt consultants, or call the office today at 866-690-3328.